[This was suddenly turning dangerous, and she knows it. It was their culture to be open about this, yet... she was having a hard time reconciling the earnest, happy openness she encountered among the villagers with this. It's not the hill she wants to die on, per say, but she isn't going to just fold about this.]

[She frowns and shakes her head.]

No. I know our peoples don't share the same traditions, but in mine, it would be in poor taste to speak of it.

And moreover, it wasn't part of the offer.